Rob Reiner murdered by own son

 We heard in the news the other day that Rob Reiner and his wife had been found dead. Murdered, actually, by their own son, a son who struggled with drug addiction and whom they feared as they simultaneously endeavored to protect him and help him. 

I can relate. Watching out for a child, your child, who is in the throes of addiction or mental illness consumes your everyday thought and effort. Even as things seem to be going in a positive direction, the wheels can come off at any moment and disaster takes over. You fear that chaos and the dread that it will reappear. It affects you your relationships, your family, and every aspect of life even as you try to act normal and assimilate yourself into a normal looking lifestyle.

I feel guilty when I read about how tragically the Reiners' lives ended, as I also feel grateful that our family didn't have quite that same situation. The angel messages people received from Andrew as related to me said that he did it for me and that he loved me and that he was going to be okay. He took his own life and he spared us. One can't help but think of the biblical undertones by his act. He took his own life and relieved us of the burden of constantly worrying about him and monitoring him and trying to get him into some kind of treatment that never really took hold. It freed us to be able to go on with our own lives, and the act of being set free comes of the terrible burden of guilt which I feel and I know my daughters feel, and I'm sure my son's father and close family members feel.

That conflicted feeling that comes with this freedom is like walking a tightrope between depression and relief. The way I deal with it is to honor my son speak his name, tell his stories, and continue to share him with the people whose lives he touched. I choose to celebrate his life. 

Goodbye, Monique

 We knew you were fading and we so wanted to be by your site to comfort you and tell you how much you mean to us. Lee especially wanted to be there, but circumstances dictated that it was not appropriate. Taylor really to be there but he needed to figure out how... Mallory needed him and so did Claire, so he was feeling divided and torn and anguished. 

As you entered into Hospice, Taylor knew it was time, and he went. He stayed a week, by your side, saying and thinking all the things he wished he could hold on to. He loved you so much and he always did miss you. It was just never enough. 

Now you are gone and he is seeking ways to honor you and memorialize your existence. 

Dearest Monique

Dearest Monique,

First, I want to wish you a sweet belated birthday (08/03/25). I tried to think of something to give you that was meaningful and it took a while to figure it out. What I really want to give you is time. 

I searched the Internet and found a post by a feller by the name of Nick Deakin who was discussing how time was measured. He said:

"Without clocks, heartbeats were used to measure short increments of time in antiquity, boiling an egg, measuring speed, the number of knots on a rope when released from a ship, counted over heartbeats (approximately a second)."

I want you to know our hearts beat for you, every second, for eternity. I cherish our time spent texting and chatting as our friendship grew, and mostly, that day we spent together when you were here for Mallory's birth. That was a day in time I will always remember with awe for what it was and what it meant to Taylor to have you near. 

So I found this little clock and hope you will keep it near, and as the seconds tick on, know our hearts are treasuring you. 💕

Happy 42nd Birthday

****42****The meaning of Life

Happy birthday Andrew. Today you would have been 42 years old. It's been 16 years since we've been in your company. I hope you're flying high with the angels. We miss you!💞

This was shared to me from my sister Maryaina:

Andrew

Comments from my notes from Christopher Dilts, Angel Communicator

The analogy of Andrew needing to raise his vibration for his journey,” was he was riding a bike here on earth and he was ready to get to the next stage of his mission and needed to be flying in a jet”, to get it accomplished. He couldn’t do it from here.

We will learn from him. He is helping us let go and become more aware to have more love and acceptance of each other.  Let go of the fear.

Some will transform from this passing and some will not. Everyone will get what they choose to get from the experience. Some will need a nudge to look and see what changes their life must take so that they embrace life in a different manner. Let go of the fear.  Some will get great insight from this experience and grow. Some will close down sadly, closing off life.

What will you choose?

Many angels helped his transition. At the forefront is Archangel Michael, Protection and Archangel Zadkiel, Prayer.

Archangel Michael is dedicated to the preservation of the spiritual destiny of every soul.

Archangel Zadkiel guards the powers of invocation. The best known and most powerful form is prayer for the highest and greatest good from the deep call within your heart followed by thanks that it is heard.

After Easter is a very good time to pass over. It is a time full of grace. Many people die at this time and a high percentage by suicide. It is an easier transition and not evil in any way. It is an answer to a call to be in the ever-after for purposes our human forms do not comprehend.

Relatives were there to guide him.

Thursday April 16, 2009